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July 02 有意思~~告訴你們個故事..........很不錯 這是一個早上，媽媽正在廚房清洗早餐的碗碟。她有一個四歲的小孩子，自得其樂地在沙發上玩耍。不久之後，媽媽聽到孩子的哭啼聲。究竟發生什麼事呢？媽媽還沒有將手抹乾，就衝出去客廳看看孩子去了哪裡。
原來，孩子仍坐在沙發上；但是，他的手卻插進了放在茶几上的花樽裡。花樽是上窄下闊的一款，所以，他的手伸了入去，但伸不出來。母親用了不同的辦法，把卡著了的手拿出來，但都不得要領。媽媽開始焦急，她稍為用力一點，小孩子就痛得叫苦連天。 在無計可施的情況下，媽媽想了一個下策，就是把花樽打碎。可是她稍有猶豫，因為這個花樽不是普通的花樽，而是一件價值連城的古董。不過，為了兒子的手能夠拔出，這是唯一的辦法。結果，她忍痛將花樽打破了。 雖然損失不菲，但兒子平平安安，媽媽也就不太計較了。她叫兒子將手伸給她看看有沒有損傷。雖然孩子完全沒有任何皮外傷，但他的拳頭仍是緊握住似的無法張開。是不是抽筋呢？媽媽又再驚惶失措。 原來，小孩子的手不是抽筋。他的拳頭張不開，是因為他緊捉著一個十元硬幣。他是為了拾這一個硬幣，所以令手卡在花樽的口內。 小孩子的手伸不出來，其實，不是因為花樽口太窄，而是因為他不肯放手。 問題是，有一天，我和你都會像小孩子一樣，發現自己被感情問題卡住了，動彈不得。問題出現了，你煩得天都要倒下來。你希望尋求方法解脫，但全都徒勞。別人說：「問題不是你所想的複雜，只是你肯放手就解決了。」 這時，你不會想：「這樣值不值？」你只會自問：「我還愛不愛？」只要是愛，你覺得再沒有甚麼要猶豫。你會很努力解決彼此之間的問題。你一直守下去，你不會放手。 其實，放手就立刻解決問題，只是大家都逃避這個事實。你寧願受著牢籠，都不願解脫。 「這段感情值得這樣磨下去嗎？」你的朋友會勸你放棄。你不相信，這份愛，只是一枚十元硬幣。 你固執感情，不肯放手；我只好惟願你不會長大，一生都不會後悔。 ps. I copied this from a forum ah.. June 20 good song sharing~~  絕對共誰玩 共誰做伴侶 進步到 某一點 熱情就會退 自然散去 茶涼掉 淡似清水 命途上 問誰是絕對 注定脈搏相通 十年又過去 廿年過去 仍然是未變的一對 ＊就算 全個世界 亦都失去 他／她也在這裡 全場 突然寂靜 他／她都給我 衷心的讚許 就算 誰愛過我 又給收去 他／她熾熱不退 旁人 視為負累 他／她偏不覺苦 靜心等我歸去＊ 沒承諾 續延萬萬歲 要是合約 一方食言 就破碎 善男信女 誰情義 歷劫不衰 若緣份 易來又易去 結伴大概只因 暫時被配對 在人際裡 誰才是被愛的根據 Repeat＊ 就算 全個世界 亦都失去 他／她也在這裡 全場 突然寂靜 他／她都准我 隨時回去睡 就算 誰愛過我 又給收去 他／她熾熱不退 如何 大成大敗 他／她的寵愛中 亦都只有一歲 共誰玩 共誰做伴侶 進步到 某一點 熱情就會退 共同進退 唯獨是父母這一對
I'll be very very touching when I hear this song every time~~ I do want to remember every word.. I will 好好孝順 mama ah~ June 19 十七樣不要對孩子做的事 十七樣不要對孩子做的事
Papa and I都要努力做ah!! May 08 Happy Birthday..my 博博^^Well, a little bit early...but, it doesn't matter la..hehe..^^
 Happy Birthday to you~~Happy Birthday to you~~ Happy Birthday to you..you~~Happy Birthday to you!!Happy Birthday, my little sweetheart, 博博!!
P.S. "EE", don't forget to buy a birthday gift for 博博 ah~~ ^^
January 10 如何讓我愛...a short passage...very meaningful...
很多時，人都容易傾向負面想法，所以，我們很容易記得別人的缺點，我們亦很喜歡說別人的壞話，我們喜歡看悲慘的新聞，我們亦很容易嫌棄我們的伴侶。伴侶的小缺點會令我們大發雷霆，我們很介懷伴侶財富不夠多，外表不夠漂亮，很多壞習慣都讓我們難以忍受，反而伴侶的優點，我們就很難發現，發現了，也很難記住。
基本上任何人都有其優點，而你愛的人，更必定有吸引你的優點，所以大家才會選擇在一起。要感情歷久常新，就必需真心欣賞對方，著眼於對方的優點，發掘對方其他的優點，保持著欣賞感激之心。相信這方面並沒有難度，難就難在如何經常提醒自己著眼對方的優點，尤其在對方的缺點弄得你渾身不自在時。今天就開始作這練習吧！時刻保持欣賞的心，會讓你的世界更美麗，也讓你的愛更充實!!! I'll try my best to 練習練習~~
 November 26 博博面試記(2)~ ^3^***面試結果~~
1. York---good performance (Accepted-pm)
 2. SKH---not that good but not that bad (Rejected)
 3. KV---excellent performance (Accepted - am)
4. St. Cat---not that good but not that bad (Waiting list)
 so far so good la~~  November 15 博博面試記~ ^3^***Papa and I were busy for interviewing for almost a month...well, we were busy to take 博博
to attend those interviews which were organised by kindergartens. We attended altogether 4 interviews (SKH, KV, St.Cat and York). We do think that 博博 did the best in the interviews . He walked by himself, he didn't cry, he smiled to the teachers, he did say 'Good morning' to the teachers...(but he didn't say too much during the process ) Frankly, I do hope that he can get all the offers from the above kindergartens, so that we can select the most suitable one for him...however, I do know that the results should not be that satisfactory. The results not only depend on the peformance of 博博
(even me) on that day, but also other factors, such as, parents' educational background, parents' career...or even 'living address'  . And, "運氣" does play a crucial role some times.  Anyway, papa and I do think that 博博 did very well all through the process.
 What can we expect from just a 2 years and 5 months old boy,right? He's only a very little boy~~ so, no matter what the results are, 博博 is always the best in our hearts~~ ^3^***October 25 一則分享 ^^時間:Saturday下午
 地點:旺角--購物中心
人物: Papa, Mama and 博博
博博 keep on walking and walking for almost one hour, then...
Papa: 博博, are you feeling tired? Let me hug hug(抱抱)~~
博博: papa, 抱抱, papa, 抱抱!!
Papa: ok,ok, good boy!
Papa: 博博, do you like Papa?
博博: Yes, I like Papa
Papa: haha..
, 博博, do you like Mama?博博: Yes, I like Mama
Mama: hehe..
 博博, do you like...(包括婆婆,祖母,姨姨,姑母...)?博博: Yes, I like...(包括婆婆,祖母,姨姨,姑母...)
Papa: haha..
博博, are you Papa's "仔仔"?博博: ......
Papa: 博博, are you Papa's "仔仔" ah?
博博: No~~
Papa:
 What?  博博: I'm Mama's "仔仔" ah~~
 Papa: AH???
博博: Mama, 抱抱~~
Papa:
 October 08 博博唔跟mama One night...mama
 , " Boris, time to bed . Do you want some milk?"博博
, "Yes, yes...please, mama ."mama
, "Ok, Boris, come and sleep with papa and mama."博博
, "......"mama
, "Come on, Boris, be a good boy...it's time to bed......alright, let's read a storybook and sing some songs , then, sleep, ok?"博博
, "......"mama
, "What's wrong, Boris?...Oh, I know, your 'cow cow',right? Ok, let's sleep with 'cow cow' together."博博
, "......"mama
, "Boris......"博博
, "mama, I'll go to sleep with grandma...hehe ...goodnight~~"mama
 , "WHAT  ?"博博 , "mama, 'cow cow' ah, please~~kiss kiss mama."September 21 papa, mama love you always~Boris has been joining for the pre-nursery class for almost 3 weeks. It seems that he's getting use to go to school, even though he still cries a little every morning.
 I do find out that Boris 忽然真的長大了,不再是當初呱呱落地的小baby了, he doesn't need me all the time...when I'm thinking of this...我的鼻子一酸,眼淚就流下來了...
 哈,頭一次當媽媽,Boris仿佛就是我的所有,他的成長,也就是他逐步離開的開始;對於我來說,真的又驚又喜,但又唔捨得,I do hope to 攬住攬住,hug hug, kiss kiss all the time...
 但另一方面,我又好想Boris可以有好多自己o既朋友,brave enough and confident enough to see the world...但願我兒健康快樂茁壯地成長,將來能夠承擔自己的理想。
Boris, papa and mama love you always!!!
September 10 Boris's school life (3/9-7/9) (3/9-7/9)
BB Boris has started his nursery traing since last Monday(3/9). Papa stayed with him for 3 days, Grandma stayed for 1 day and I also stayed for 1 day. He didn't cry any coz we stayed with him.
 Boris is a not a boy who will participate actively. On the 1st day, Papa told me that, he just stood on one side, and then kept on watching, looking and observing, in a very concentrated manner. He even didn't say 'bye-bye' to his teachers. He only showed his 'active' attitude during 'tea-time'.
 On the 2nd day, Papa told me that, Boris changed a bit. He tried to work in a more co-operative way. He tried to follow teachers' instructions. He even tried to make handicrafts, but still didn't sing and dance in the playground. He gave his teachers hug hug when he left...wow, what a surprise!! It seemed that he did improve a bit.
 On the 3rd day, I got a chance to have lesson with him. Well, I shouldn't expect him too much.
 He's only a 2 years old boy...or I did expect that he should perform like a "primary student", so, I felt a little bit disapppointed on him. I kept on thinking his performance...until my mama said, "Pok Pok is only 2 years old. What do you expect on him?" Yes, my lovely Boris is only 2 years and 3 months old. He's really great on his level.On the 4th day, Papa got an half-day off, to take the lesson with lovely Boris (haha, Papa cares about Boris a lot...
) Papa told me that, Boris did quite good during the lesson, in particular the 'tea-time'...haha..Boris really likes eating...and he gave hug hug and kiss kiss to his teachers. I know that he should be happy at school, he should be happy with his teachers, otherwise, he won't give anybody hug hug and kiss kiss. I'm really happy for that.On the 5th day, Grandma went to school with him...but Grandma was not allowed to have lesson with him together. Boris took his lesson by himself.
 At the end of the lesson, his teachers said, "He didn't cry during the lesson. He did quite good in class." WOW~~ my lovely Boris didn't cry. He showed a little improvement. He will take the school bus and have lesson by himself next week. I do hope that he is brave enough to handle it.July 29 Japan TripJust came back from Japan last night. Mom, my sis and I had a great,...but a bit tired trip.
My sis and I spent quite a lot of money to buy things, in particular to buy things for my sweetheart, bb Boris. We didn't take him with us. I did miss him night and day....um, i did think that I'll bring him together with us next time...anyway, I'll see my sweetheart, Boris very soon...chu chu~~P.S. I also miss my honey very much!! April 17 thanks, my lovely lovely sis ^3^ My lovely lovely 'mui mui', Rita,Thank you very very much for your surprise birthday party!!!
 I'm really really happy...
 it's really unbelieaveable  ...unforgetable ....so touching ah~~~I love love
 you always ah~~chu chu!!September 12 New life~~( 1 )Pok pok is so cute....and a bit naughty la.. :) ..he keeps on walking around and around all the time. He usually switches off the TV when we are watching...woo..naughty...I'll be very happy when he smiles to me, says 'mama'...um..so sweet ah!! ^^
( 2 )A new working environment...um...everything's ok...at least right now...I'll try my best...
( 3 )Ha, I'm now a cityu student. I'm now taking two courses, those are Language Technoloy and Introduction of Language study...well, both are really new to me, in particular that previous one...I really don't understand the concept of "Java", and I'm surely don't know how to write a programme la...ah....can I get a 'pass' in the exam???...um, it's really a question ah~~~ =.=
ps. thanks for you help, anthony!! May 17 HaPPy BiRtHdaY!! Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you~~you~~ Happy Birthday to you~~~HAPPY BIRTHDAY, my sweetheart, POK POK!!!
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